Parenting teenagers: When to choose a conflict — and when to let it go

Everything from the clothes your children wear to the state of their bedroom can bother you but there is a time to get tough and there's a time to look the other way the experts tell Helen O'Callaghan.
Parenting teenagers: When to choose a conflict — and when to let it go

Particularly for teens, their room is “their little domain”, but if really bothering you, you might negotiate around doing “a big clean” once a month, says psychotherapist and relationship counsellor Bernadette Ryan. Picture: Alamy/PA

In the tricky terrain of parenting, are there certain battles — such as about clothes or hairstyle or our children’s friends or the state of their room — that are just not worth fighting?

In the fight-or-not-to-fight dilemma, context is everything, say experts.

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