Sex File: Will our passion fade if he leaves his wife and we become a real couple?

Looking backwards will always be an incredibly effective way of avoiding facing the future - but your lover now wants a future with you and you are scared about what would happen if you became a "real" couple
Sex File: Will our passion fade if he leaves his wife and we become a real couple?

Suzi Godson: "Some people divorce because they recognise that they are simply not happy with their spouse anymore and would rather be on their own; others have found another partner they want to start a new life with."


After my divorce, I rekindled a relationship with a former lover, who is still married with (older) children. The sex is incredible but I'm horrified that he's started talking about leaving his wife for me. I worry that the passion would fade if we became a real couple. Can't we just enjoy what we have?

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