Sex File: I’ve never reached orgasm with a partner

The man you are in a relationship with has not had the benefit of a lifelong sexual relationship with your body, so has a lot to learn.
Sex File: I’ve never reached orgasm with a partner

Most men have a lot to learn but one helpful step along that road is if women give them advice. Picture: iStock 

I'm a 55-year-old woman who has been in a few long-term relationships. I've been with my current boyfriend for eight years and I'm very happy. My problem is that I can orgasm on my own but have never done so with a partner. Any advice?

One of the reasons your solo orgasms are so reliable is because you are in tune with your body and can deliver the type of stimulation you require. It's easier for women to orgasm through masturbation. With a man, there is a lot more for you to do and think about. The man you are in a relationship with has not had the benefit of a lifelong sexual relationship with your body, so has a lot to learn.

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